Dead To Me

I am watching this Netflix series and it is so liberating!!!

I participate in Griefshare and the characters on this show does as well. I get to see what my grief group looks like from the outside.

Very therapeutic to say the least.

It’s interesting how we mourn someone but that version of them is a fantasy. The name of the group on the show is Friends of Heaven. They even go on a Grief Retreat!!! Oh my God!!! I would love to go on a retreat TOMORROW…

It’s been years of heartache for me. I have gone to therapy. I have been weirded out and ignored by Seattle police homicide division. What floored me?

The wife who was so upset about her husband who was killed found out… SPOILER ALERT: He had been cheating on her for a year and a half with a waitress!!! Andddd he told his girlfriend that he was a widower!!!!!

Yep, he killed his wife. He told the girlfriend that his wife died of breast cancer. Yep. Is this great writing or what? SMH I love this twist!

What if my beloved son despised me? What if my other family have been telling people that I died years ago? What a relief? It’s easier to grieve without pain when the deceased betrayed you and KNEW it. They didn’t love you at all. Well, it’s a relief. It frees you from missing them and wishing they were still alive and in your life.

You know that feeling of confusion… we are supposed to love one another but this isn’t feeling like love at all. Love doesn’t look like this… you don’t understand it. Love is not mixed feelings and confusion.

The main character wasn’t sleeping with her husband because he complained of having back issues. Does your husband or wife not have sex with you FOR A YEAR???? Does that bring peace to your marriage or confusion??

In my case, my sons and daughter in law seemed so STRANGE to me for years. I didn’t understand anything that was happening. What a RELIEF AND A BLESSING to know the truth. The truth sets you free even from grief.

Watching “Dead to Me” shows me what it looks like and what it sounds like to drop that grief and confusion. I see what it is to live as a person who can enjoy life without confusion anymore. I don’t chase that fantasy or fantasies anymore. I no longer bear the blame for the murkiness of the relationships I never had. It was lies all the time. Finally, I know the truth and the truth has set me free.

“Dead to Me” is definitely fantastic!!! 10/10❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

There are a lot more twists and turns to this story… what did you think of the writing on this series??? No more grief por moi🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾 #19CrimesBySnoopDog