Remember that? Remember when we TRIED to run guys off and they had to “think” and “decide” if they really and truly wanted us? Remember playing “hard to get”? Yessssss, ladies actually used to NOT throw themselves at guys back when the T-Rex still roamed freely trying to catch Brontosaurus with those tiny fore arms… Remember?

What happened?

Well, as an observer of human conduct I have been in the grocery store and a tall, dark and handsome man got in line – and – on cue about 5 ladies began taking off their clothes. Yep. In the grocery store. Just like that.

What did I think?

I thought to myself: This is like a hiker going to pick some blackberries and 5 deer came out of hiding and lay down at his feet. He isn’t even a hunter. He was actually not straight and his man read those “deer” for filth in the grocery store! I swear if only TikTok was a thing back then! SMH It was HILARIOUS!!!!

But that is what has happened. There are so many undesireable men in the world. Men without a heart or soul much less a brain. I raised boys and I am telling you it’s from birth. Not so many baby boys come into this world with that “sparkle”. Those rare ones who do are mistreated in all kinds of ways. The others are definitely mistreated and grow up “wrong”. They lack boundaries, social skills, are deviants or are all about the “score”. Relationships are not their “jam”. Per TikTok, it’s not just the straight men either.

I suppose there are two kinds of men. Those who are kind and loving + will choose a kind and loving partner AND those who won’t at any cost.

C’est la vie… that’s why you have to just lose yourself in a classic comedy: How to lose a guy in 10 days

How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days

2003 | PG-13 | 1h 56m | Comedies

A player bets his co-workers he can make a woman fall in love with him in just 10 days. But he bets on the wrong girl — a writer with her own agenda.

Starring:Kate Hudson, Matthew McConaughey, Kathryn Hahn

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=622867082544751